Why I’m Not Ready To Drink The Birthright Kool-Aid

Whose Birthright is it anyway?

Today I got a text message from Birthright letting me know that registration for winter trips is now available. Registration and assignment for these trips is extremely competitive due to a limited number of spots, yet I took no action.

For those of you who don’t know, Birthright is a program that sends Jews under the age of 25 (who have never been) to Israel for free. Friends of mine who have gone on the trip swear by it, and regale me with stories of adventures and partying. “It was so fun!” they say, “and it’s free!” My non-Jewish friends also harp on this point when birthright comes up. “It’s a free trip to another country!” I’m unsettled by the propagandic spin of the Birthright trip, during which the organization hopes participants will (in the course of ten days) find “nice Jewish partners to have nice Jewish babies with.” When I express my feelings about this friends retort with, “just go on the trip and extend your stay so you can see Israel on your terms.”

Sure a free trip to a foreign country is a sweet opportunity, but to be completely honest, I’m just not ready to drink the Kool-Aid.

As a child I attended Hebrew school twice a week, learning the merits of Reform Judaism and bagels. From ages 5-16 I accepted the explanation that Israel was the rightful home of the Jews, a place we were assigned in a religious housing lottery by (none other than) God, and a mystical faraway land accurately depicted in various Rugrats Jewish holiday specials. My basic viewpoint as a child was thus: Jews and Israel = good, people who oppressed them = bad.

Then I went to college.

I thoroughly studied the history and politics of both sides of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict from the ground up. Ironically enough, this resulted in my feeling entirely unqualified to form an opinion on the matter. Who am I to decide which group is in the right, and what does being right even mean at this point? From what I understand a vicious cycle of hate has been spiraling out of control (for a very, very long time). The worst part is that the situation seems to be largely perpetuated by government politics (and interests), leaving peaceful Israelis and Palestinians caught (literally) in the crossfire.

If you think you are ‘right’ about one side of this conflict or the other you will never be part of the solution.

Every day Palestinians are forced to wait hours in checkpoints while Israelis (and Birthright participants- ahem Americans) can move freely throughout the country, crossing whatever borders they please. I can’t help feeling like I’m being stared in the face by the sad and sick irony of the Israeli government treating the Palestinians with actions that echo the persecution of the Jews during the Holocaust.

Talk about bad karma. (Not to mention breaking the 6th commandment).

I may decide that I want to go to Israel someday, but when I do it will most certainly be on my own terms.

For those of you eagerly applying to the next round of Birthright my hope is not to discourage you from doing so. My aim is simply to encourage you to remove your blinders, to keep an open mind to the interpretation of history, and to stick to something more natural than Kool-Aid,

like water.

6 thoughts on “Why I’m Not Ready To Drink The Birthright Kool-Aid

  1. I can see that you’re a well meaning person and I admire your commitment to your values. Birthright Israel is a great opportunity and the value of that opportunity is a function of what one makes of it. There’s no Jim Jones style Guyanese purple Kool Aid involved. All participants are adults and if they follow the instructions on the page you linked to – http://www.jewlicious.com/2012/06/the-unofficial-13-dos-and-donts-of-birthright-israel/ – they will have both a fun AND meaningful experience. You want people to remove their blinders and keep an open mind? I want the same thing. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

    • Thank you for sharing yours! I fully appreciate that there are many, many sides to this story, and I’m feel certain that my feelings towards this issue will continue to change. The most important thing here is being able to have an open dialogue about it.

  2. I promised myself to never comment on blog posts but this time I just can’t help it.
    It is great that you want to form your own opinion and I encourage you to do that but you clearly got the picture wrong.

    I’m not going into who’s the land it is (I’m an atheist) but I have to correct you.

    “Every day Palestinians are forced to wait hours in checkpoints”. Those checkpoints in the west bank are intended to prevent palestinians from entering Israeli territory armed with bombs.

    Why? Because: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Palestinian_suicide_attacks (P.S – read that list. Envision what US, UK, Sweden or any other country would do in reaction to such attacks).

    BTW – in areas controlled by palestinians (Gaza Strip) – there are no checkpoints and palestinians can move freely without any problem.

    Side note – then you have that: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palestinian_rocket_attacks_on_Israel

    You read the number right. 2256 rockets fired on Israel in 2012 from Gaza Strip. What does Israel do? No, they don’t nuke them as some countries might…. Why? because they don’t want to hurt innocent people. Instead, they develop a defense system to bring down those rockets on their way to Israeli cities.

    How would you even think of comparing that to the holocaust?

    Whenever I return to the US from abroad I’m forced to spend hours in an airport checkpoint where I face insulting questions. Why? Because: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/9/11

    Reality is much more complex than you might imagine. Don’t let the media shape your opinions. If anything, go to Israel, speak to the people there and understand the situation really well, and only then form your opinion.

  3. That’s an interesting way of putting it drinking the Birthright Kool-aid. I went on Birthright and I noticed that right after the trip ended, I had a VERY favorable view of Zionism… but then after traveling around Israel on my own for 2 weeks, I had developed a more realistic view of it where I was seeing both sides of the issue. I got a little affected by the Birthright agenda without even realizing it. That said, I had a great time and would recommend the trip to anyone who can take it with a grain of salt 🙂

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